"4-Letter-Words"

LOVE!

okeh... awalnya si gw sedikit berharap ni blog akan jarang bgt ngomongin this 4-letter-words..
tp ternyata baru juga post ke 4, lgsg ngebahas deh..
mungkin karena ada sama nya ya, 4 huruf dan post ke-4... (gak penting, gak logis, gak usah dipercaya... haha...)

what's wrong with this things ya? (terjemahan harfiah: ada apa dengan cinta?? yeah... u can start singing now....)

have u ever been in love?

pasti lah... everybody's ever been in love at least once in life...

tp kan bentuk nya beda-beda yah...
ada yang indaaaaaahhhhhh (YUP! dengan banyak 'A' dan 'H') banget...
ada yang menyenangkan...
ada yang nyusahin...
ada yang ngeberatin...
ada yang bikin depresi...
ada yang bikin idup lebih berati...

ya begitulah...

my point is mau bentuknya kayak apa juga..
love is love...

setiap orang bakal punya pengalaman yang beda-beda...
dan setiap orang punya hak buat ngasi label ke si 4-letter-word ini...

tp quotes nya coelho yang gw baca kemarin (thanks to fani..) cukup bikin gw ketusuk...

"... what is happiness?
Love, they tell me. but love doesn't bring and never has brought happiness. On the contrary, it's a constant state anxiety, a battlefield; it's sleepless nights, asking ourselves all the time if we're doing the right thing. Real love is composed with ecstasy and agony."

THERE!!
it's true... really really true...

dan final words nya: "Real love is composed with ecstasy and agony"

true again..

so, do we really realize that when we say "i wanna find my true love...."
or even worse, "well.. this is my true love..."

that means we're gonna stuck with ecstasy and agony....


well.. some people will say it will be worth it...
gak papalah kita menderita, asal bisa dapet cinta nya kita...

DUH!!
i dont think how that suppose to be...

but again... in Love, Logic really rare on taking it's part...

sering nya si 'Feel' ini...

gak salah juga si..
karena ya emang gak ada yang bener, gak ada yang salah...

and u know what?
kalo gak ada si '4-Letter-Words' ini, hidup gak akan kayak gini...

gak bakalan ada orang yang cerita panjang lebar sama temen nya, yang actually udah muak banget...
gak bakalan ada orang yang curhat pake status FB, Plurk, Twitter, etc... (contoh nyata: GW..)
gak bakalan muncul puisi-puisi, lagu-lagu, quotes-quotes romantis yang bikin sebagian orang melayang-layang dan sebagian lagi muntah-muntah...
gak bakalan ada cerita kapal patah jadi dua yang ditonton sampe jutaan orang...
gak bakalan ada kasus ngeliat dua orang berantem (atau make out, u pick,,,) di public places dan disebar ke orang-orang...
gak bakalan ada infotainment yang terus masuk ke idup orang...

and simply, toko coklat, bunga, dan aksesoris bakal kehilangan at least setengah pelanggan nya... haha,,,

all of that, and so many more, bakal gak ada kalo si '4-letter-words' ini gak ada...

our world will be a better world?
at some point, maybe yes...

but one thing for sure, it will be sooo much more boring compare to what we have today...

Jadiii...
mari kita nikmati saja si '4-letter-words' ini...
sambil nunggu ato nyari dia ke hidup kita...
and then stuck with it...